FAQ's...
Why
choose a doula?
There
are numerous benefits of labor support to the birthing woman and
her family. Studies have shown that women report greater satisfaction
with their birth experiences and greater satisfaction with their
partners after the birth when a doula is present. Studies have
also shown that the presence of a doula decreases complications,
lowers the rate of interventions, and improves the bond between
mother and baby. In addition, breastfeeding is enhanced and obstetrical
outcomes are improved. Some studies also demonstrate that women
report greater self esteem after birthing with a doula present.
Many fathers report enjoying their child’s birth more when
a doula is present. When a father is not solely responsible for
providing all that his partner needs, he may be more relaxed and
feel less pressure. Having a doula there to provide information
to him can also help alleviate fears and concerns he may have
for his wife and child.
The
purpose behind providing labor support is to empower each woman
to have the best possible chance of having the kind of birth experience
she wishes to have. According to the DONA position paper, the
purpose of labor support is to provide for the non-medical psychosocial
needs of women. A labor support person can provide something in
addition to the companionship offered by her partner or the medical
care offered by her doctor. The doula’s purpose is to support,
encourage, and empower the laboring woman.
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The
doula has many roles in providing labor support. The first area
is to provide information. This may happen prenatally as well
as during, and immediately following the birth. While the doula
does not provide medical advice, she may assist the pregnant or
birthing woman in finding the answers to her questions and the
information she needs to make her own decisions. Providing information
can also include things like ideas for position changes during
labor. It can also take the form of helping her understand what
is happening to her body while she is in labor as well as reassuring
her when she questions whether or not things are normal. Lastly,
doulas often provide information to fathers and other family members
regarding ways they can support the mother.
Second,
the doula provides emotional support. This can come in a variety
of ways. Sometimes it is sitting quietly with a woman. Sometimes
it means providing continuous verbal encouragement, affirmation,
and praise. It can be reminding her that she is safe and that
she is surrounded by people who care for her and her baby. It
is reminding her through words and touch that she is not alone.
Next,
the doula provides physical comfort measures. This may include
rubbing her back, giving her sips of water, getting cool cloths
for her head, fanning her when she is hot, getting her a warm
blanket if she is cold, rubbing her feet, leading her in visualizations,
helping her concentrate on her breathing, applying counter pressure,
or physically supporting her as she stands. Doulas do not at any
time perform any medical procedures.
Finally,
doulas provide support by facilitating communication. She does
not speak for
the mother, but encourages open communication between the woman
and her partner as well as between the woman and her medical team.
This may mean helping the mother clarify if she has questions
for her medical team before she makes any decisions. The doula
may also encourage the mother to ask for explanations regarding
medical necessity for procedures that the mother may be apprehensive
about.
Doulas
help promote a positive birth experience for the mother and her
family. Doulas make a wonderful impact on the world by supporting
families as they begin their lives together.
When should I hire
a doula?
The sooner
the better! If you are interested in hiring a doula, it is best
to contact her early in your pregnancy so that she can reserve
the space for you during your expected due date.
At
what stage of my labor do you arrive?
I will come to your home or meet you at the birth facility as
soon as you feel the need for my support.
What
facilities have you worked in?
Wake Med
Rex
Women’s Birth Center in Chapel Hill
Raleigh Community
UNC Hospital
Wake
Med Cary
Home Births
Midwifery Center, DePaul Hospital, Norfolk, VA
Mariah Parham, Henderson
What
is DONA?
Doulas of North America, the premier doula association in the
world.
Do
you use a contract for services?
Yes, once you decide that I am the doula you wish to work with,
I have a short contract. As part of my contract, I will hold a
prenatal visit with you and your partner, attend the entire birth,
and complete a post partum follow up visit. At the post partum
visit we can discuss the birth and I can offer postpartum support.
How
long have you been a doula?
I attended many births as an “unofficial” doula beginning
in 2003. I completed doula training in April of 2005 and obtained
DONA certification on Labor Day of 2005. As of June 2008, I have attended 67 births.
“A doula enters the space of a laboring woman and is highly responsive and aware of her needs, moods, changes, and unspoken feelings. She has no need to control or smother. Every pregnant woman should have the benefits of a doula. This person does not detract from the role of the baby’s father or co-parent, by the way. A doula enhances it and leaves him free to do the very important job of loving the mother. “ Christianne Northrup M.D. in her book Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom.